面子:中国人的“隐形货币”

The “Invisible Currency” of the Chinese People

Face: The “Invisible Currency” of the Chinese People

What is "face" in Chinese culture—and why would someone buy a luxury car they can't afford just to keep it? This HSK 6 reading explores the hidden rules of face, from mahjong with friends to "slapping your face to look fat."

拼音 Pinyin
翻译 Translation
Zhōngguó rén hěn zàiyì zìjǐ de miànzi. Zài Yīngwén zhōng zhǎo bú dào yǔ “miànzi” duìyìng de cí, tā de yìsi dàgài jiù shì zhǐ yí gè rén de xíngxiàng huò míngyù. Zài Zhōngwén zhōng, yǒu hěn duō guānyú “miànzi” de cíhuì hé biǎodá, tāmen dōu fǎnyìng le Zhōngguó de miànzi wénhuà.
中国人很在意自己的面子。在英文中找不到与“面子”对应的词,它的意思大概就是指一个人的形象或名誉。在中文中,有很多关于“面子”的词汇和表达,它们都反映了中国的面子文化。
Chinese people care a lot about their "face." In English, there is no word that corresponds to "face"; its meaning roughly refers to a person's image or reputation. In Chinese, there are many words and expressions about "face," and they all reflect China's face culture.
Lìrú: ài miànzi, yìsi shì yí gè rén hěn zàiyì zìjǐ de xíngxiàng, hàipà bèi rén kànbuqǐ, wèile bú zài biérén miànqián diū miànzi, érqù zuò yìxiē zìjǐ bù xǐhuan zuò de shìqing. Lìrú péngyou jiào nǐ yìqǐ qù dǎ májiàng, suīrán nǐ bù xiǎng qù, dànshì yīnwèi hěn ài miànzi, bù hǎo yìsi bú qù, zuìhòu zhǐhǎo qù le. Méi miànzi, shì zhǐ yí gè rén gǎnjué hěn diūliǎn, gāngà de yìsi; shāng miànzi, shì zhǐ yí gè rén juéde zìzūnxīn shòudào le shānghài; gěi miànzi, shì zhǐ zhàogù qítā rén de qíngmiàn, shǐ rén miànzi shàngxià de lái.
例如:爱面子,意思是一个人很在意自己的形象,害怕被人看不起,为了不在别人面前丢面子,而去做一些自己不喜欢做的事情。例如朋友叫你一起去打麻将,虽然你不想去,但是因为很爱面子,不好意思不去,最后只好去了。没面子,是指一个人感觉很丢脸、尴尬的意思;伤面子,是指一个人觉得自尊心受到了伤害;给面子,是指照顾其他人的情面,使人面子上下得来。
For example: "loving face" means a person cares a lot about their image, is afraid of being looked down upon, and in order not to lose face in front of others, does things they don't like to do. For example, a friend asks you to play mahjong together. Although you don't want to go, because you love face, you are embarrassed not to go, and in the end you have no choice but to go. "Having no face" means a person feels very ashamed and embarrassed; "hurting face" means a person feels their self-esteem has been hurt; "giving face" means showing consideration for others' feelings and making them feel they can keep face.

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面子
miànzi
face; reputation; prestige
noun
他非常在意自己的面子。
Tā fēicháng zàiyì zìjǐ de miànzi.
He cares a lot about his face.
在意
zàiyì
to care about; to mind
verb
她不在意别人怎么看她。
Tā bú zàiyì biérén zěnme kàn tā.
She doesn't care how others see her.
对应
duìyìng
to correspond; corresponding
verb/adjective
这个英文单词在中文里没有对应的词。
Zhège Yīngwén dāncí zài Zhōngwén lǐ méiyǒu duìyìng de cí.
This English word has no corresponding word in Chinese.
大概
dàgài
roughly; probably
adverb/adjective
他大概下午三点到。
Tā dàgài xiàwǔ sān diǎn dào.
He will probably arrive at three in the afternoon.
形象
xíngxiàng
image; appearance
noun
公司很重视自己的公众形象。
Gōngsī hěn zhòngshì zìjǐ de gōngzhòng xíngxiàng.
The company attaches great importance to its public image.
名誉
míngyù
reputation; honor
noun
保护好名誉比赚钱更重要。
Bǎohù hǎo míngyù bǐ zhuànqián gèng zhòngyào.
Protecting one's reputation is more important than making money.
词汇
cíhuì
vocabulary; words
noun
学习一门外语需要积累大量词汇。
Xuéxí yì mén wàiyǔ xūyào jīlěi dàliàng cíhuì.
Learning a foreign language requires accumulating a large vocabulary.
表达
biǎodá
to express; expression
verb/noun
他不太善于表达自己的感情。
Tā bú tài shànyú biǎodá zìjǐ de gǎnqíng.
He is not very good at expressing his feelings.
反映
fǎnyìng
to reflect; to mirror
verb
这部电影反映了年轻人的真实生活。
Zhè bù diànyǐng fǎnyìng le niánqīngrén de zhēnshí shēnghuó.
This movie reflects the real lives of young people.
文化
wénhuà
culture
noun
中国的茶文化历史悠久。
Zhōngguó de chá wénhuà lìshǐ yōujiǔ.
China's tea culture has a long history.
爱面子
ài miànzi
to love face; to care too much about one's image
verb phrase
他很爱面子,从不向别人借钱。
Tā hěn ài miànzi, cóng bú xiàng biérén jièqián.
He loves face very much and never borrows money from others.
害怕
hàipà
to fear; to be afraid
verb
她害怕在很多人面前讲话。
Tā hàipà zài hěn duō rén miànqián jiǎnghuà.
She is afraid of speaking in front of many people.
看不起
kànbuqǐ
to look down upon; to despise
verb
不要看不起任何一个人。
Bú yào kànbuqǐ rènhé yí gè rén.
Don't look down on anyone.
丢面子
diū miànzi
to lose face
verb phrase
他在朋友面前丢面子了。
Tā zài péngyou miànqián diū miànzi le.
He lost face in front of his friends.
打麻将
dǎ májiàng
to play mahjong
verb phrase
周末他们常常一起打麻将。
Zhōumò tāmen chángcháng yìqǐ dǎ májiàng.
They often play mahjong together on weekends.
虽然
suīrán
although
conjunction
虽然很累,他还是坚持完成了工作。
Suīrán hěn lèi, tā háishì jiānchí wánchéng le gōngzuò.
Although he was tired, he still persisted in finishing the work.
不好意思
bù hǎo yìsi
embarrassed; sorry; excuse me
phrase
不好意思,我来晚了。
Bù hǎo yìsi, wǒ lái wǎn le.
Sorry, I'm late.
只好
zhǐhǎo
have no choice but to
adverb
下雨了,我们只好待在家里。
Xiàyǔ le, wǒmen zhǐhǎo dāi zài jiā lǐ.
It rained, so we had no choice but to stay at home.
没面子
méi miànzi
to have no face; to feel ashamed
phrase
被拒绝以后,他觉得没面子。
Bèi jùjué yǐhòu, tā juéde méi miànzi.
After being rejected, he felt he had no face.
丢脸
diūliǎn
to lose face; shameful
verb/adjective
在公共场合大声吵架很丢脸。
Zài gōnggòng chǎngsuǒ dàshēng chǎojià hěn diūliǎn.
Arguing loudly in public is very shameful.
尴尬
gāngà
awkward; embarrassed
adjective
他们两个人见面时很尴尬。
Tāmen liǎng gè rén jiànmiàn shí hěn gāngà.
The two of them felt very awkward when they met.
伤面子
shāng miànzi
to hurt someone's face
verb phrase
在别人面前批评他会伤他的面子。
Zài biérén miànqián pīpíng tā huì shāng tā de miànzi.
Criticizing him in front of others will hurt his face.
自尊心
zìzūnxīn
self-esteem
noun
他的自尊心很强,从不轻易认输。
Tā de zìzūnxīn hěn qiáng, cóng bù qīngyì rènshū.
He has strong self-esteem and never easily admits defeat.
受到
shòudào
to receive; to suffer
verb
他的建议受到了大家的欢迎。
Tā de jiànyì shòudào le dàjiā de huānyíng.
His suggestion was welcomed by everyone.
伤害
shānghài
to hurt; harm
verb/noun
语言有时也会伤害别人。
Yǔyán yǒushí yě huì shānghài biérén.
Words can sometimes hurt others.
给面子
gěi miànzi
to give face; to show respect
verb phrase
他今天来参加我的生日会,很给我面子。
Tā jīntiān lái cānjiā wǒ de shēngrìhuì, hěn gěi wǒ miànzi.
He came to my birthday party today, which gave me a lot of face.
照顾
zhàogù
我们应该照顾老人的感受。
Wǒmen yīnggāi zhàogù lǎorén de gǎnshòu.
We should show consideration for the feelings of the elderly.
情面
qíngmiàn
feelings; face; consideration
noun
看在我的情面上,你就答应他吧。
Kàn zài wǒ de qíngmiàn shàng, nǐ jiù dāying tā ba.
For my sake, please agree to it.
体现
tǐxiàn
to embody; to reflect
verb
他的行为体现了良好的教养。
Tā de xíngwéi tǐxiàn le liánghǎo de jiàoyǎng.
His behavior reflects good upbringing.
淋漓尽致
línlíjìnzhì
thoroughly; fully
idiom/adverb
这场比赛把团队精神体现得淋漓尽致。
Zhè chǎng bǐsài bǎ tuánduì jīngshén tǐxiàn de línlíjìnzhì.
This competition fully demonstrated team spirit.
相比
xiāngbǐ
to compare; compared with
verb/preposition
和去年相比,今年的成绩更好。
Hé qùnián xiāngbǐ, jīnnián de chéngjì gèng hǎo.
Compared with last year, this year's results are better.
质量
zhìliàng
quality
noun
这家工厂的产品质量很好。
Zhè jiā gōngchǎng de chǎnpǐn zhìliàng hěn hǎo.
This factory's product quality is very good.
注重
zhùzhòng
to pay attention to; to emphasize
verb
他非常注重自己的健康。
Tā fēicháng zhùzhòng zìjǐ de jiànkāng.
He pays great attention to his health.
品牌
pǐnpái
brand
noun
这个品牌的手机很受欢迎。
Zhège pǐnpái de shǒujī hěn shòu huānyíng.
This brand's phones are very popular.
明明
míngmíng
obviously; clearly
adverb
他明明知道答案,却不说。
Tā míngmíng zhīdào dá'àn, què bù shuō.
He clearly knows the answer but won't say it.
收入
shōurù
income
noun
他的收入比去年增加了不少。
Tā de shōurù bǐ qùnián zēngjiā le bù shǎo.
His income has increased quite a bit compared with last year.
富裕
fùyù
wealthy; affluent
adjective
这个国家越来越富裕了。
Zhège guójiā yuèláiyuè fùyù le.
This country is becoming more and more wealthy.
费尽心力
fèijìn xīnlì
to exhaust one's efforts
phrase
他费尽心力才完成了这个项目。
Tā fèijìn xīnlì cái wánchéng le zhège xiàngmù.
He exhausted his efforts to complete this project.
甚至
shènzhì
even
adverb/conjunction
他忙得甚至没有时间吃饭。
Tā máng de shènzhì méiyǒu shíjiān chīfàn.
He was so busy that he did not even have time to eat.
贷款
dàikuǎn
to take out a loan; loan
verb/noun
他贷款买了一套房子。
Tā dàikuǎn mǎi le yí tào fángzi.
He took out a loan to buy an apartment.
豪车
háochē
那辆豪车吸引了很多人的目光。
Nà liàng háochē xīyǐn le hěn duō rén de mùguāng.
That luxury car attracted many people's attention.
熟悉
shúxī
我很熟悉这个城市。
Wǒ hěn shúxī zhège chéngshì.
I am very familiar with this city.
亲朋好友
qīnpéng hǎoyǒu
noun phrase
他结婚时请了很多亲朋好友。
Tā jiéhūn shí qǐng le hěn duō qīnpéng hǎoyǒu.
He invited many relatives and friends when he got married.
能力
nénglì
ability; capability
noun
他有能力解决这个问题。
Tā yǒu nénglì jiějué zhège wèntí.
He has the ability to solve this problem.
与众不同
yǔ zhòng bù tóng
different from others; unique
idiom/adjective
她的想法总是与众不同。
Tā de xiǎngfǎ zǒngshì yǔ zhòng bù tóng.
Her ideas are always different from others.
面临
miànlín
to face; to be faced with
verb
公司面临着巨大的挑战。
Gōngsī miànlín zhe jùdà de tiǎozhàn.
The company is facing huge challenges.
巨大
jùdà
huge; enormous
adjective
这次事故造成了巨大的损失。
Zhè cì shìgù zàochéng le jùdà de sǔnshī.
This accident caused huge losses.
经济压力
jīngjì yālì
financial pressure
noun phrase
买房给他带来了很大的经济压力。
Mǎi fáng gěi tā dàilái le hěn dà de jīngjì yālì.
Buying a house brought him great financial pressure.
象征
xiàngzhēng
symbol; to symbolize
noun/verb
红色在中国文化中象征着喜庆。
Hóngsè zài Zhōngguó wénhuà zhōng xiàngzhēng zhe xǐqìng.
Red symbolizes joy in Chinese culture.
打肿脸充胖子
dǎ zhǒng liǎn chōng pàngzi
to slap one's face to look fat; to do things beyond one's ability for the sake of appearance
idiom
他没钱却买豪车,真是打肿脸充胖子。
Tā méi qián què mǎi háochē, zhēn shì dǎ zhǒng liǎn chōng pàngzi.
He has no money but buys a luxury car—he's really slapping his face to look fat.
与……对应 (yǔ... duìyìng)
"与……对应" means "to correspond to..." or "to be equivalent to...". It is used to show a matching relationship between two things. The structure is "A + 与 + B + 对应." It is common in academic, formal, and everyday Chinese when comparing words, concepts, or data.
在英文中找不到与“面子”对应的词。
Zài Yīngwén zhōng zhǎo bú dào yǔ “miànzi” duìyìng de cí.
In English, there is no word corresponding to "face."
这个中文成语与英文中的那个表达并不完全对应。
Zhège Zhōngwén chéngyǔ yǔ Yīngwén zhōng de nàge biǎodá bìng bù wánquán duìyìng.
This Chinese idiom does not completely correspond to that English expression.
每一个号码都与一个名字对应。
Měi yí gè hàomǎ dōu yǔ yí gè míngzi duìyìng.
Every number corresponds to a name.
为了……而…… (wèile... ér...)
"为了……而……" means "for the sake of..." or "in order to...". It shows the purpose or reason for doing something. The structure is "为了 + purpose + 而 + action." It is often used in formal or written Chinese, and it emphasizes a deliberate choice.
为了不在别人面前丢面子,他去做一些自己不喜欢做的事情。
Wèile bú zài biérén miànqián diū miànzi, tā qù zuò yìxiē zìjǐ bù xǐhuan zuò de shìqing.
In order not to lose face in front of others, he does things he doesn't like to do.
很多人为了面子而贷款买豪车。
Hěn duō rén wèile miànzi ér dàikuǎn mǎi háochē.
Many people take out loans to buy luxury cars for the sake of face.
他为了健康而每天坚持运动。
Tā wèile jiànkāng ér měitiān jiānchí yùndòng.
He exercises every day for the sake of health.
宁可……也要…… (nìngkě... yě yào...)
"宁可……也要……" means "would rather... even if it means...". It shows a strong choice: someone is willing to accept a difficult or costly option in order to achieve something they value more. The structure is "宁可 + sacrifice + 也要 + goal."
这个成语比喻一个人为了面子,宁可付出很高的代价,也要做一些自己力不能及的事情。
Zhège chéngyǔ bǐyù yí gè rén wèile miànzi, nìngkě fùchū hěn gāo de dàijià, yě yào zuò yìxiē zìjǐ lì bù néng jí de shìqing.
This idiom is a metaphor for a person who, for the sake of face, would rather pay a high price and still do things beyond their ability.
他宁可自己吃亏,也要帮助朋友。
Tā nìngkě zìjǐ chīkuī, yě yào bāngzhù péngyou.
He would rather suffer losses himself than not help his friend.
我宁可多花点时间,也要把这件事做好。
Wǒ nìngkě duō huā diǎn shíjiān, yě yào bǎ zhè jiàn shì zuò hǎo.
I would rather spend more time to do this well.
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面子 Mianzi

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面子是什么意思?

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很多人没钱,为什么还要买豪车?

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她害怕一旦失败会很__________。

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__________是中国人的特征。

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他接受不了这样的工作,因为他觉得很__________。

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朋友之间要相互__________,才能长久友好。

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小王被解雇了,但他___________,逢人便说是他辞职了。

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